Growth and Development from Infancy to Childhood

Reviewed by Dr C. J. Odike, MRCGP

Children grow in size while also developing movement, language, thinking, independence and relationships. These processes are connected but are not identical. Healthy children develop at different rates. Clinicians therefore look at the overall pattern, progress over time and the child's individual circumstances.

Growth and development mean different things Growth describes measurable physical change. It includes changes in weight, length or height, head circumference and body proportions. Development describes the gradual acquisition of abilities: movement, communication, learning, play, emotional regulation and everyday independence. A child may grow steadily while developing one skill later than expected. Another child may reach early milestones quickly but later develop a growth concern. Clinicians assess growth and development together without treating them as one measurement. Development begins before birth The brain and nervous system begin developing during pregnancy. After birth, the brain continues forming and reorganising connections in response to experience. Genes provide part of the biological framework. Nutrition, health, relationships, play, communication and the wider environment influence how development proceeds. Development is therefore neither completely predetermined nor created by parenting alone. Illness, disability or developmental difference should not automatically be interpreted as a failure of care. Development occurs across several domains Clinicians often organise development into broad developmental domains. Gross motor development involves large movements such as head control, sitting, standing and walking. Fine motor development involves smaller coordinated actions such as reaching, grasping, drawing and using cutlery. Communication development includes understanding language, making sounds, speaking, gestures and other communication methods. Cognitive development includes attention, memory, problem solving, imagination and learning. Social and emotional development includes attachment, shared attention, play, relationships and emotional regulation. Adaptive development includes practical abilities such as feeding, dressing, toileting and participating in routines. These domains interact. Difficulty hearing, for example, can affect communication, learning and social interaction. Milestones describe common developmental achievements A developmental milestone is an ability commonly acquired during a broad age range. Examples include smiling socially, reaching for objects, sitting, using gestures, saying words and walking. Milestones help clinicians and families notice progress. They are not exact deadlines that every child must meet on the same day. Children may develop skills in a different order or use alternative ways to achieve the same function. One late milestone does not automatically indicate a developmental disorder. The pattern across several abilities and the child's progress over time provide more useful information. Development usually follows a sequence Although timing varies, many skills build upon earlier abilities. A baby usually develops head and trunk control before standing. Hand use progresses from broad grasping towards more precise finger movements. Communication develops from responding to voices and facial expressions towards gestures, words and sentences. Play progresses from sensory exploration towards imitation, imagination and shared games. The sequence can provide useful information even when the precise age differs. A child who continues making progress may need a different assessment from a child who has stopped progressing. Movement develops through opportunity and practice Babies strengthen muscles by moving against gravity and exploring different positions. Supervised tummy time while awake can support neck, shoulder and trunk strength. Floor based play gives a baby space to reach, roll and change position. Not every baby crawls in the same way. Some bottom shuffle, move sideways or progress directly towards standing. The method alone is less important than symmetry, increasing control and continued progress. Walkers and prolonged use of restrictive equipment do not teach normal walking patterns. Safe opportunities to move freely are more useful for motor learning. Early communication begins before words Communication starts through eye contact, facial expression, crying, movement and response to familiar voices. Babies learn that sounds and actions can produce a response. Back and forth interaction is sometimes called serve and return communication. An adult responds to the child's sound, gesture or interest, and the child responds again. Talking, singing, reading and following the child's attention support language development. Children need responsive interaction rather than formal teaching programmes during ordinary early development. Background television or audio does not replace direct human communication. Understanding develops before fluent speech A child often understands words before speaking them clearly. Gestures such as pointing, showing and waving are meaningful communication skills. Some children use signs, pictures, communication devices or other methods. Speech clarity develops gradually. A child may know what they want to say before their mouth movements can produce every sound. Persistent communication concerns should include assessment of hearing as well as speech and language. Play supports several developmental systems Play allows children to practise movement, language, imagination, attention and problem solving. A young baby may explore through looking, touching and mouthing safe objects. A toddler may imitate household actions and begin pretend play. Older preschool children often create stories, negotiate roles and follow simple shared rules. Play does not need expensive equipment. Safe household objects, books, songs, outdoor spaces and responsive adults can provide rich learning opportunities. The most useful activity is often one that matches the child's interest and current abilities. Relationships support emotional development Babies depend on caregivers for food, warmth, comfort and regulation. Repeated responsive care helps them learn that support is available. Attachment describes the developing emotional relationship between a child and caregiver. Secure attachment does not require perfect parenting or constant happiness. Caregivers sometimes misunderstand signals or respond late. Repairing the interaction and returning to warm, reliable care also supports development. Children can form meaningful attachments with more than one consistent caregiver. Separation anxiety can be part of normal development Many babies become more cautious around unfamiliar people during the second half of the first year. They may cry when a caregiver leaves. This separation anxiety reflects growing memory and awareness of familiar relationships. It is common between about 6 months and 3 years, although timing and intensity vary. Gradual practice, predictable routines and calm reunions can help. Extreme or persistent distress may require wider assessment when it substantially limits daily life. Emotional regulation develops gradually Young children cannot regulate strong feelings like adults. Their brain systems for language, inhibition and planning are still developing. A toddler may communicate frustration through crying, shouting, hitting or dropping to the floor. This behaviour does not automatically indicate deliberate manipulation. Calm boundaries, predictable routines and help naming emotions support gradual self regulation. Frequent severe behaviour may also reflect pain, communication difficulty, sensory needs, trauma or developmental difference. Assessment should consider the context rather than applying one behavioural label. Growth charts show patterns A growth chart compares measurements with reference patterns for children of the same age and sex. The curved lines are called centile lines. A child on the 25th centile is not 25% developed or 25% healthy. It means that approximately one quarter of children in the reference group have a lower measurement. Many healthy children remain naturally small, average sized or large. The important information is whether growth follows a broadly consistent pattern. Crossing several centile spaces, slowing height growth or failing to gain expected weight may require assessment. One inaccurate measurement can create a misleading pattern, so measurements should use appropriate equipment and technique. Weight is not interpreted alone Weight can change because of nutrition, hydration, illness and measurement variation. Length or height helps show whether weight is proportionate to body size. Head circumference provides information about skull and brain growth during infancy. A child's family growth pattern also matters. Clinicians may compare the child's height with parental heights when investigating short or tall stature. A high or low centile is not a diagnosis. The direction and speed of change are usually more informative. Early weight change after birth Most newborns lose some weight during the first days after birth. This reflects fluid adjustment and the establishment of feeding. Weight should then begin increasing. Significant loss, continued loss or slow regain requires feeding and medical assessment. The number on the scale must be interpreted with feeding, urine, stools, alertness and examination. Repeated weighing without a clinical reason can increase anxiety and may overemphasise normal small fluctuations. Prematurity changes age interpretation A baby born before 37 completed weeks is described as preterm. Their developmental expectations may be interpreted using corrected age. Corrected age accounts for how many weeks early the baby was born. For example, a baby born eight weeks early may be assessed approximately two months behind their chronological age during early development. Correction is commonly used during infancy and may continue longer after very preterm birth. Specialist growth charts are available for very preterm babies and those requiring close monitoring. Nutrition supports growth and learning Infants need adequate energy, protein, fat, vitamins and minerals. Milk remains the main source of nutrition during early infancy. Complementary foods are generally introduced at around 6 months alongside breast milk or infant formula. The child should be developmentally ready to manage food, and textures usually progress as oral skills improve. Iron rich foods become important because stored iron gradually declines. Food variety supports nutrition and familiarity with different tastes and textures. Pressure, force feeding or using food as punishment can disrupt feeding relationships. Persistent coughing, choking, pain or poor growth during feeding requires assessment. Vitamin D and iron Vitamin D supports bone and muscle health. UK supplementation advice varies according to age, feeding method and individual circumstances. Iron deficiency can affect energy, attention and development. Risk increases with inadequate dietary iron, restricted diets, blood loss or some medical conditions. Supplements should be given at the correct dose. Adult vitamin products can be unsafe for young children. Sleep supports development Sleep needs change with age and vary between children. Newborn sleep is spread across day and night. Longer night time sleep commonly develops gradually. Toddlers and preschool children still benefit from consistent routines and adequate total sleep. Sleep disruption may reflect hunger, developmental change, environment, pain, breathing problems or family stress. A fixed sleep method does not suit every family. Loud snoring, pauses in breathing or persistent daytime sleepiness needs medical assessment. Hearing and vision affect several domains Children learn through seeing, hearing, moving and interacting. A hearing difference may first appear as delayed speech, reduced response to name or difficulty following instructions. A vision problem may affect reaching, mobility, attention or learning. Newborn screening identifies some conditions but does not exclude later problems. Parents and carers should raise concerns even after a normal screening result. Early identification allows communication, education and therapy support to begin sooner. Developmental reviews In England, health and development reviews are commonly offered during infancy and again around 2 to 2½ years. Local timing and service arrangements vary across the UK. Reviews consider movement, communication, social development, behaviour, growth, hearing, vision, feeding, sleep and safety. They are opportunities to discuss concerns, not examinations that children pass or fail. Information from parents, carers and early years settings may show abilities that are not visible during one appointment. Developmental delay Developmental delay means that a child is acquiring one or more abilities later than expected. A delay may affect one domain, such as speech. Global developmental delay affects two or more developmental domains. Possible contributors include hearing or vision differences, premature birth, genetic conditions, neurological conditions and social or environmental factors. Sometimes assessment does not identify one cause. Early support can improve function and participation even before a final diagnosis is known. Neurodevelopmental difference Children do not all process communication, movement, attention or sensory information in the same way. Autism, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and developmental coordination disorder are examples of neurodevelopmental conditions. A difference should not be judged only by how closely a child resembles peers. Assessment considers strengths, needs, participation and the effect on daily life. A diagnostic label may explain a pattern and improve access to support. It does not define the child's value, personality or future potential. Developmental regression is different from delay Developmental regression means losing a skill that was previously established. Examples include losing spoken words, hand use, walking ability or social responsiveness. Temporary reduced performance can occur during illness or stress. Clear or persistent loss of skills requires prompt professional assessment. Motor regression should be referred to a paediatric neurodevelopmental or neurology service according to local pathways. A plateau may also matter A child may not lose a skill but may stop making expected progress. This is called a developmental plateau. The significance depends on duration, age, associated symptoms and the abilities affected. A plateau may be less obvious than regression. Growth records, videos and reports from childcare can help establish whether change has occurred. Asymmetry can provide a clue Young babies may briefly favour one side, but persistent asymmetry requires attention. Examples include consistently using one hand before 12 months, dragging one leg or moving one side less. A flattened head shape can also reflect persistent positioning or limited neck movement. Asymmetry does not establish cerebral palsy, nerve injury or another diagnosis. It provides a reason for assessment of movement, tone and function. Context matters Development may be affected by chronic illness, repeated hospital admission, pain, sleep disruption or reduced opportunity for play. Children exposed to poverty, housing insecurity or food insecurity may face additional barriers. Trauma, abuse and neglect can affect physical, emotional and cognitive development. These factors should be addressed without blaming families for structural disadvantage. A child can also have a neurodevelopmental condition and experience social adversity at the same time. One explanation should not automatically exclude another. Early support does not require certainty A child may receive physiotherapy, speech and language therapy, occupational therapy or educational support while assessment continues. Support can focus on communication, mobility, feeding, sensory needs or daily participation. Parents and carers may also need practical and emotional support. Waiting for a final diagnostic label should not prevent reasonable early intervention.

Child development is a continuing pattern across several domains, so progress, function and change over time matter more than one isolated milestone.

Medical words made simple

Growth
Measurable physical change, including weight, height, length and head circumference.
Development
The gradual acquisition of movement, communication, learning, social and everyday abilities.
Developmental milestone
An ability commonly acquired within a broad age range.
Centile
A position on a growth chart comparing one measurement with a reference group.
Corrected age
Age adjusted for how early a premature baby was born.
Developmental delay
Acquiring one or more abilities later than expected.
Developmental regression
Loss of a skill that a child had previously established.
Neurodevelopmental condition
A condition affecting how the brain develops and supports abilities such as movement, attention or communication.

Quick recap

  • Growth and development are related but different processes.
  • Development occurs across movement, communication, cognition, social interaction and everyday skills.
  • Milestones are broad guides rather than exact deadlines.
  • Growth charts are most useful when measurements are accurate and viewed over time.
  • Corrected age helps interpret early development after premature birth.
  • Developmental regression requires prompt professional assessment.